Controlling? Bye Bye! Red Crewneck Sweatshirt
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There is so much victim-blaming of survivors for not recognizing abuse or for not leaving abuse but very few acknowledge how many people tell a survivor to ignore abuse, give the abuser a second chance, or even to not leave the abuse. We need to give better advice and non-blaming support to survivors. Wear this adorable super warm red sweatshirt and make it clear that relationship advice 101 should be, are they controlling? Then, Bye Bye! Love is not controlling. Don’t victim blame the survivor - hold the abuser accountable for their behavior.

Too often, if people hear someone is controlling, it’s followed by, “well, how do they treat you otherwise?” or “but they are so nice…” No. If you hear someone is controlling, no other questions are needed. Your only response should be “Controlling? Bye Bye!” 

  • Size S: 27” length
  • Size M: 28” length
  • Size L: 29” length
  • Size XL: 30” length
  • Size 2XL: 31” length
  • Size 3XL: 32” length

This sweatshirt is Red colored, 50% Cotton, 50% Polyester, is unisex, and runs true to size.

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